The Daddies
Paperback Engels 2018 9789004383548Samenvatting
The Daddies is a love letter to masculinity, a kaleidoscope of its pleasures and horrors. The question “Who’s your Daddy?” started showing up in mainstream cultural references during the 1990s. Those words can be spoken as a question, or a challenge, as a flirtation, a joke, or a threat. It’s all about inflection, intention, and who’s asking. Apparently, we have so much shared cultural meaning about “Daddy” the speakers and listeners can simply intuit meaning and proceed to laugh at the joke, or experience the shame, as appropriate. But who is Daddy in American culture? The Daddies aims to find out more than who – but how the process of knowing Daddy can prompt readers to know themselves and their society. This allegory about patriarchy unfolds as a kinky lesbian Daddy/girl love story. Daddy-ness is situated in all people, after all, and we each share responsibility for creating a fairer world. The Daddies can be used as a springboard for discussion in courses in sociology, gender and women's studies, cultural studies, sexuality studies and communication. As a work of fiction, The Daddies can also be enjoyed by general audiences.
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Lezersrecensies
Inhoudsopgave
Acknowledgments
Introduction: The Daddies
Part 1: Origins
Chapter 1: Shooting and Spanking and Who’s Your Daddy?
Shooting Lessons
Spanking
The Etymology of Colloquy
Chapter 2: The First Time
Chapter 3: The President and the Metaphors
Presidential Daddy
Getting What I Want
Reviewing the Literature
Chapter 4: Looking for Safety at Daddy’s House
What It Means to Know Everything
Formality
Mon Coeur est a Papa
Chapter 5: Coming into My Room at Night
Chapter 6: Daddies, Daughters and Strippers
Daddies, Daughters and Strippers
When Sex Is Absent
Part 2: Actions
Chapter 7: The First Time II
Chapter 8: University Daddy
Chapter 9: Daddy God
Daddy God
Out of the Woods
Chapter 10: Daddy’s Territory
Two Points on a Map
Daddy’s Dinner
Chapter 11: The Purity Ball
Ignoring the News
Daddy vs. Girl Purity Showdown
Chapter 12: Confusion Hurts
Funny Business in the Broadmoor
Confusion Hurts
Chapter 13: Abroad with Daddy
Daddy Gets a Passport
Daddy on Holiday
Chapter 14: Playboy, Panties, Papi
Daddy Likes Playboy Magazine
Panties
Daddy in the News
Chapter 15: Parenting Daddy
Parenting Daddy
Parenting Daddy
Chapter 16: Self-Awareness
The List
Sexism
Chapter 17: Loving Masculinity
My Lover’s Wounds
The Fight
Chapter 18: Be Grateful for What You Have
Chapter 19: Deliberate Power
Women and Wolves
Power
What Does a Girl Want from Daddy?
Chapter 20: Keeping Daddy in Line
Mistrusting Daddy
Keeping Daddy in Line
Chapter 21: Intergenerational Incest Family
True Pleasure
Chapter 22: Incest Culture
Chapter 23: Do We Know Ourselves in Each Other’s Eyes?
Too Young
Dominating Daddy
Wrath
Chapter 24: Knowledge Is King
The Most Powerful Position Possible
Daddy Sick
Chapter 25: Don’t Make Me Leave You
Text Free Lover
Chapter 26: Possibility
Incantation
Dollhouse
Part 3: Transformation
Chapter 27: The Turning
The Collapse of the Big Buildings
A Note to My Previous Daddy
Chapter 28: Daddy’s Vessel
Chapter 29: The End
Daddy’s Goodbye
The Blade
Chapter 30: The Storyteller
Storyteller Me
One of the Oddities in the Curiosity Cabinet of Kimberly’s Psyche
Chapter 31: My Father’s Time
Realizing
In the Reckoning
Chapter 32: Pleasure
Pleasing Daddy
Chapter 33: Choosing to Change
Why Should Daddy Change?
Beautiful Failure
Chapter 34: Start with Salt
Discussion Guide
References
About the Author
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